Make the first date simple (and short)
Remember to keep your first date simple. If you click then there’ll be plenty more dates for big romantic gestures. Keep the first date short, don’t plan a 3-hour bus trip and a 7-course meal. Also remember to go somewhere relaxed, casual and neutral. Don’t agree to meet in a nightclub (too loud) or go to the cinema (too quiet) because you won’t be able to talk. Also remember that unless you’ve had a chat about it whilst online dating then don’t arrange a sporting event or themed bar as they’ll either love or hate it.

It cost the earth to make an effort
You’ve already clicked at online dating but first impressions online are very different from first impressions in real life. So remember that hygiene, clean clothes and boys, remember to clean your shoes! Also don’t overdo the alcohol prior and during your date. Dutch courage in one thing, drunk and disorderly is another.

Be the kind of person you’d want to have a date with
Treat your date how you yourself would want to be treated. That means being polite, complimentary and respectful. You might have clicked at online dating but they may not be your cup of tea in real-life and you may never see them again but a little kindness goes a long way. Also be honest with them (in the nicest possible way of course). If they like you but you don’t plan of returning their calls then make it clear that it’s been a pleasure meeting them but you don’t see a relationship developing.
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We run a dating site and as much as we’d like to think it’s the coolest thing since sliced bread … it’s well … er … not. Now before you go running for the unsubscribe button and claiming somebody stole your identity and put you on the site without your knowledge let’s just have a think about why online internet dating isn’t cool.

For a start it’s honest. You have to admit not only to yourself that you’re looking for love but also broadcast it to the entire world, one of the first (and possibly most important) things you’ll do is paint a picture of the kind of love you’re looking for. “Young (ish) average looking guy seeks blonde supermodel”. You complete your dating profile and then post it for all comers to measure themselves against. Of course in the beginning you’re 6’2″, athletic, hilarious and rich but as time goes by gradually you become you in all your glorious uniqueness.
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Being single is difficult enough – whatever the reason – without friends dragging you along to your local speed dating event. These days, with online dating services, it’s far simpler to stay at home and socialise on your Laptop than meet new people face-to-face. If you’re searching for love, companionship or friendship and are considering online dating for singles, here are the top 5 tips:

1. The crucial photograph
You have no chance of attracting any potential dates without a decent photo. Your main photograph shouldn’t be over 4 years old. If you appear better looking in it than in real life, add some more realistic pictures to your additional photos.

Perhaps you’re shy or concerned that people you know may discover you. Remember, you’ve taken a courageous step by registering for singles online dating, but you need to finish that step off for it to be worth-while. Just be proud and ensure that your profile is the greatest UK online dating profile ever.

2. Tell the truth
“It’s OK to say that I’m 27 because I look it.” said one 35 year old. “I said I live in London because I often go there, although I really live in Norwich” said another woman. Female singles in the UK frequently tell more subtle lies than the typical blundering fibs from men about height etc, but this doesn’t make them ethical. Always tell the truth because small lies will be uncovered ultimately.

3. Dealing with your responses, or lack of thereof…
Some singles receive lots of mail and do not have time to reply to it all. Some have left the website but have kept their profiles intact. Some just might not feel attracted to you, even if they were at first…. Basically, it’s complex, but frequently people just won’t reply. You shouldn’t let this deter you from UK online dating sites.

4. Don’t rush
Taking time out to get to know someone prior to meeting them is vital in UK singles dating. Chat online first and then talk to them on the phone.

At the risk of sounding condescending, if you wish to know a person’s true intentions, hold back for several dates. Only those genuinely interested in you will then usually stick around.

Once you finally find someone special and agree to meet them…

5. Meet in an interesting place
Meet up somewhere like a local monument or in a book shop. Whoever is first to arrive will have something to look at while they wait, and something to chat about straight away.

For safety, always meet in a busy public area, take your mobile phone with you and tell a friend or family member where you are going to be.

The web can bolster your chance of meeting Mr or Mrs Right, but also Mr or Mrs Wrong. If you take heed of the 5 online dating tips above, you will be much more likely to have a successful UK singles dating experience.